Author: Luvidya

  • The Chasing Game vs. Playing Hard to Get (for men)

    The Chasing Game vs. Playing Hard to Get (for men)

    This is an excerpt from a letter I received from one of you about chasing game: “I don’t chase after women. If she runs away and acts like I’m not worth her time, it makes me feel like I have to do so much extra work to prove myself… The ones I chased in the…

  • Is it true that women want bad boys?

    Is it true that women want bad boys?

    Are women really drawn to dating bad boys? While it might surprise you, the answer is actually NO! No woman wants a man who will disrespect her or a man who plays the field and avoids commitment. “ However, it’s true that bad boys have certain qualities that are appealing to women. I would like…

  • Sadly, I’m not attracted to her/him…

    Sadly, I’m not attracted to her/him…

    As a matchmaker, I hear this all the time. And it always comes from people who claim to need a partner the most but can’t seem to find the right person.  They complain that it’s hard to meet quality people today. But when I offer them a good potential match, they always say: “I’m just…