We are going to uncover the most effective way of being for you to drive your man #wild. Have you ever seen a couple and wondered how they got together? How is it this incongruent couple seems so happy? If you have ever experienced infidelity, a relationship breakup, feeling insecure about sharing your desires or felt that you were not being heard or seen, keep reading.
Men are simple creatures. Understanding a man is not a hairy version of a woman is key to understanding how to engage and expand his #attraction strategy towards you and to want to keep going back for more. By default, the more you are in your feminine energy, the more he will be in his masculine energy. If you decide to go into your masculine energy, those around you have to go into their feminine energy. As a woman, you have the most #creativity, #fulfilment and #pleasure whilst in yin, so take advantage of this ecology when you are with your man.
It is not only women who love #compliments. It is men as well. It is just they do not receive them as frequently so they mean so much more when received, especially when sincere.
It is a myth that a woman should never approach a man. There are ways this can be initiated without taking the ‘hunt’ away. Men enjoy the pursuit and chase of a woman. It excites their senses and inflames #desire. It engages the #primal aspects of their being. By making a simple unexpected and hidden compliment, you now have his undivided attention. As an example. If he is muscular, don’t talk about how fit it looks. Everyone does that. If you compliment the dedication and the character of someone who has the fortitude and discipline to continue on the journey, this is #unique. After making your compliment or similar gesture, continue on your way enjoying yourself and speaking with other friends. Now it is in his ‘courtship’ to begin the chase.
Driving a man wild is not primarily about how you look, tactics in how you engage and so forth. It is who are you #Being in your feminine energy that makes him feel more like a man. As an example, with couples #dancing, the common consensus is a man leads, however, if a woman does not agree to dance, how can he lead? It is by consent he is able to feel more powerful and ‘manly.’ In conversation and activities always look for ways to position the environment so he is able to step into and be in that role. The more you create the environment for this, the more he is able to be the foundation of manhood you also crave to be fully a woman. Men always gravitate to situations that will enable them to feel more like a man.
There are specific things you can do and say that will enable a man to feel #celebrated. For instance, when you share with him, What a ‘man’ he is. These kinds of comments encourage him to do more of the behaviours that push all of the buttons which can put you both in a heated, passionate frenzy for one another. Let him know how safe you feel just at the thought of him. This statement feeds his need to protect you from the ‘sabre-tooth tiger’ that is trying to eat his family. If you know your partner is really into you, let him know how unfortunate other women are because they do not get to have him the way you do. This is similar to ‘marking one’s territory.’ Again, the more he feels like a man around you, the more his #pleasure and focus is on you.
Another effective compliment is to share that you love a particular essential oil on a man, especially on your partner. Because he wants to please you, watch his behaviour and face light up when you reveal this to him. Sandal Wood, Vetiver and Ylang Ylang are highly effective at increasing testosterone production and increasing vascular volume.
This compliment is the heaviest, most effective and tantalising. It takes a woman who is committed to her partner to use this. When you share, It makes me wet when you _________________, it is game on! This doesn’t have to be something sexual or physical. It could even be a behaviour he has that really makes a difference to you such as doing housework, looking after the children, or anything else that makes your life easier and you feel cherished as a result of it. Whatever you put in the blank, he is going to do it more often because he wants to please you.
The more specific you are, especially with the things that are seemingly small, the #deeper in love and connected he will feel with you. Attraction is not about physical proximity. Attraction is how someone feels about themselves as a result of their thoughts about you.
All human beings are first attracted fron their #heart and head, in that order. We have a feeling (limbic brain) and then go to the head (cognitive brain) to justify it.
Drive him wild in his heart and mind first for everything else to follow. Also, do not feel this is one-sided; as you focus on him, by default, he will do the same with you. Women will sometimes make the mistake of thinking or saying, If he really loved me, he would just know what I need and do it. This is a huge, huge mistake. Men are not wired that way. The only way he will know is if you tell him. When you do, he is forever yours every time you do.
If you have ever had a pet dog, have you noticed how happy they are when they do something they know you approve of and will get a reward for? Not to compare men to dogs, but it is similar.
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